It took me a while to get it, but I found out how life works [again].
Life will give you a present.
1]You can open it + taking the opportunity
1.1] It may be something good + opportunity being in your favor
1.11] It may be meant for you + and it really is
1.12] It may be meant for someone else + opportunity lasted awhile
1.13] It may not be meant for anyone + something no one can achieve
1.14] It may be meant for everybody + something every one can
1.2] It may be something bad + opportunity not in your favor
1.21] It may be meant for you + and that's bad luck
1.22] It may be meant for someone else + saved at a price
1.23] It may not be meant for anyone + it hurts, but not so much
1.24] It may be meant for everybody + pain is not really shared
1.3] It may not be anything at all + an opportunity faked
2]You can just hold on to it + preserving an opportunity
2.1] You can wonder about it + but it can never go higher or lower
2.2] You can destroy it + and miss a chance at pain and joy
3]You can throw it away + where it might come back
4]You can give someone else + because the opener might be the pained
However, simply
I just think life gives you something so that you can throw it away or it can be stolen from you.
Everytime life lets you smile, it snatches it away sooner or later
And then when it comes to crying, I can't smile after that even if I know life will take my sorrows from me, because as long as I smile, I will cry, and as long as I cry, I will cry again.
But philosophy is kinda nicer on the nerves than regret. At least it happened. At least it was tried, even if it was kinda bad. At least, I get a chance to smile again, depressingly even if I will cry.
But a smile is a smile. No matter what the philosophy, that's all I'd like to think that matters.