I guess in the world we live in, it is a very interesting circle btw, that we strive to be like everyone, and we shape everyone.
Like you know how people wanna be like others, or not be like others, and how this is influenced by the world and that we are the world?
For me as a character, I am not always focused, but often or not when I think, I try to make decisions, fix on it, and then see what that influence it. Decisions not based on others, but still seeing what are the factors.
It is hard though, to do that. Do you carry on because the other is okay? Do you stop because the other doesn't want to?
Making sound decisions and correct ones has nothing to do with choices. It's how that just doing because the other okay kinda brings a person into what I call a fail-proof individual.
You go along only when so does everyone.
I am like that at times, but on the average, I can say less than others. I make choices, like how I want to be honoured with Argent Dawn or Thorium Brotherhood despite later knowing that it doesn't serve any purpose at all. All these, shows that how the environment is affecting a person.
That's why, sometimes we feel like being everybody, doing the choices a collective says so, but for me, I just like to be somebody, someone that has it's distinct values and (usually) makes no sense at all when I pick the choices other people are befuddled at. Or like in a certain case, everyone is befuddled at.
I am me, I am Idiot. I am proud of it. Well, who else'd be proud of a personality I made except myself?
Oh, there's the mirror.